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Spread Love While Traveling

Posted on February 13, 2013 by journeyingjames 20 Comments
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My fellow Pinoy Travel Bloggers are writing about places where broken-hearted people go (more info of this at the end of the blog). I guess I can’t relate that much on the subject (denial?) as I don’t break hearts but mend them (naks!).

Travelers go to the beach to forget their ex-es or failed love relationships. As someone said, “The cure for anything is saltwater- sweat, tears or the sea.” Some go up to the highest mountains and shout it all to the trees as they wipe their tears off their cheek. Still some just wanna get lost in the city, trying to forget the haunting past. Some even drink a beer to somehow ease the pain. Whatever works for you, then do it. But then, remember that everything happens for a reason. So instead of crying over that jerk, fix yourself and spread love this love month.

“The cure for anything is saltwater- sweat, tears or the sea.” – Isak Dinesen

I will share Three (3) Ways to Spread Love While Traveling.

1. Free Yourself, Volunteer.

Friends volunteered to teach elementary students in Sorsogon Province. You can watch the TV5 Feature here: 5-deacede library in Gubat, Sorsogon 

It doesn’t matter where you want to volunteer in big organizations or in a  small community, what matters is that you are doing something other than yourself. One day is not enough in volunteering as this is done in a growing relationship. Brotherhood is forged and we begin to give something from within us. Ourselves are invested to others who are usually of less means compared to us. What I like about volunteering is that we don’t actually need lots of money to do this. We do this by freeing ourselves from the business of our daily routine to focus on something more lasting and intangible like building someone’s home, cleaning the beach, teaching basic education, helping a tribe, giving medical help or community building.

“We do this [volunteering] by freeing ourselves from the business of our daily routine to focus on something more lasting and intangible…”

 

2. Forget Yourself, Share.

shoe sharing

Our first successful project, giving of running shoes to our young athletes in Negros Oriental.

This is not far away from Volunteering. Sometimes these two happen at the same time. But this is more focused on giving something tangible. I’m reminded of two highlights in my travel blogging career. First, when we donated running shoes to some highscool students in Bayawan City in Negros Oriental last 2011. Second, when we did a Book Sharing Project in Rizal Elementary School in Gubat, Sorsogon.

“This is not far away from Volunteering. Sometimes these two happen at the same time. But this is more focused on giving something tangible.”

This year, we will do this again in Jomalig Island, Quezon. We are partnering with the LGU and DOH for improving the malnutrition state in the town of Jomalig. Please visit the blog #PROJECTJOMALIG and the FB Event page for updates.

 

3. Fraternize Yourself, Accompany.

mt tapyas sunset

Accompany someone who is broken-hearted. Give a shoulder to cry on, open arms to those who needs a hug or provide a listening ears to those who are in pain. Travel with them so they relearn that the end of a relationship doesn’t mean an end to everything. Help them realize that there is a big world out there and that life goes on even if their boyfriend/girlfriend for 8 years fooled them. Let them see the world and somehow learn that its not about them.

“Travel with them so they relearn that the end of a relationship doesn’t mean an end to everything.”

Be with them, watch the sunset with them, drink with them, party with them and support them. Be a real friend, a travel buddy to somebody. Bring them to your happy beach and let them discover the value of other things. (Bawal abangers ha!)

 

So next time you travel, travel not just for the sake of traveling. Travel with a purpose! VOLUNTEER. SHARE. ACCOMPANY. Try adding meaning to your journeys. Our life journey should not be done solo anyway. 🙂

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This is my contribution to the February 2013 Blog Carnival entitled “WHERE DO BROKEN HEARTS GO?” hosted by Rain of Rakistang Nars.

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20 thoughts on “Spread Love While Traveling”

  1. Claire | Traveling Light said:
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    February 13, 2013 at 5:47 am

    Agree with all your tips, and I smiled at #3! #3 can be tricky, though, but I think as long as the “comforter” has good intentions and makes sure he/she is not taking of the brokenhearted person’s vulnerability, then it’s all good. 🙂

    • journeyingjames said:
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      February 20, 2013 at 4:00 am

      yep, that’s why i placed “bawal abangers” haha
      one needs to be healed first before he/she can love again

  2. Claire | Traveling Light said:
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    February 13, 2013 at 5:48 am

    *taking advantage, I mean.

  3. Lakay said:
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    February 13, 2013 at 10:21 am

    Our life journey should not be done solo anyway.

    Why not?

    • journeyingjames said:
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      February 20, 2013 at 3:51 am

      coz no man is an island

  4. Nyx said:
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    February 13, 2013 at 12:37 pm

    Great post, James! And great to see you following your heart, still journeying…

    • journeyingjames said:
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      February 20, 2013 at 3:51 am

      ms. nyx! how are yah? thanks! i wish more journeys to you this 2013

  5. ian | going places said:
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    February 14, 2013 at 9:59 pm

    There is no other way to spread love but to SHARE… This is is a nice post. ‘Liked what you share.

  6. julai said:
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    February 16, 2013 at 12:44 am

    great post James! Go and spread the love!

  7. Nique said:
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    February 20, 2013 at 3:51 am

    Is the last photo taken from Mt.Tapyas? or somewhere in Coron? or am i just dreaming of another day off?
    I agree…Nothing is yours until you give it away.. give love and it will all come back to you. Hey I want to join any of your projects for 1 & 2, even in just a simple way so maybe in doing so we can do # 3 . 🙂

    • journeyingjames said:
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      February 20, 2013 at 5:55 am

      haha! sure thing, just keep posted. i have a project for quezon soon.

  8. hani said:
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    February 20, 2013 at 10:52 am

    I could only agree to everything you said.. Thanks 🙂
    will wait for details on your jomalig project.. i wish manila is just like laguna where i can just shuttle back and forth with ease anytime i need a getaway… but i can’t, i am way down underrrr..

    • journeyingjames said:
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      February 22, 2013 at 3:38 am

      hope to see you tagging along during our jomalig project hani

      • hani said:
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        February 22, 2013 at 11:45 am

        yup i hope so too but i’m hundreds of miles away.. hopefully, when i am in manila there’ll be more of those projects so i can tag along..

  9. Ephraim said:
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    February 21, 2013 at 6:00 am

    3 great ideas bai! This is a wonderful post about doing what matters most– helping and inspiring others!

  10. adventurouskikay said:
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    February 21, 2013 at 6:30 am

    Sapul ako sa post mo na ito sir james..I’ve done it last year, since I’m a mountainer, the day after I ended my almost 2yrs relationship with my ex-bf, I climbed Mt. Tarak in Bataan and shouted at the summit while wiping my tears afterwards…hahaha, sarap maging kakampi ng nature…nakakarelieve ng pains.

    • journeyingjames said:
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      February 22, 2013 at 3:35 am

      whew! glad nature healed you.

  11. adventurouskikay said:
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    February 21, 2013 at 6:34 am

    sir james, im from calamba laguna, if you have adventures in laguna, invite nyo naman ako, basta po weekend… 🙂

    • journeyingjames said:
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      February 22, 2013 at 3:35 am

      wala pa eh, more of bicol and mindanao ako this year

  12. Nigel Clifford said:
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    May 3, 2013 at 7:24 am

    Great post James, way to set such a great example. Volunteering while you travel makes your experience so much richer to.

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